Sunday, April 12, 2009

What does it mean if my ex-boyfriend send me flowers on my birthday and signs the card with?

what does it mean if my ex-boyfriend send me flowers on my birthday and signs the card with %26quot;love%26quot; and then his name? there is soooooooooooooooooo much more to the story than this. short version.....we just had a baby together, his mother (i think, but am pretty positive) wants him all to herself b/c he pays her bills, he has not seen the baby in over a month, he%26#039;s admitted to being a momma%26#039;s boy, ask me to marry him now has changed his mind and a lot of other things. anyways...why in the world would he send me flowers on my birthday? the arrangement even came with a teddy bear and hershey kisses!!! i%26#039;m so confused. i love him and care about him deeply, but have just gotten used to the idea of not being with him. i filed for child support too. i just know that if we were ever to get back together he would have to move out of his mother%26#039;s house (it%26#039;s actually his house). he has acted like he does not care, but sending me flowers? and remembering my birthday? i need some advice.

What does it mean if my ex-boyfriend send me flowers on my birthday and signs the card with?
Long story short: %26quot;He still cares for you%26quot;
Reply:It sounds like he still loves you and cares about you. I mean you were a couple and had a baby together.


If he says anything about you two ever getting back together I%26#039;d say I would only consider it if your mother was out of your house. Which I don%26#039;t think would happen anyway!


Just get on with your life without him. He sounds like he doesn%26#039;t know what he wants and can%26#039;t make up his mind. You need stability with a baby.
Reply:This guy obviessly loves you too and wants to see his baby. I%26#039;m sorry but get that ***** of a mother out of your way, that guy should be with you. Your going to have to tell his mother politely even though she%26#039;s a *****, that you would really like to see him again and it%26#039;s important to her grandchild that he/she has a father around, make it all for the baby because it%26#039;s true and she probably doesn%26#039;t care about you.
Reply:Hes trying to slide nicely back in to your life. He caes about you to rem. your birthday. H ehasnt seen his baby, do you really want a guy like that? Its a nice way to start a conversation, thinking youll call and thank him and hell be the good guy in your eyes for awhile.
Reply:Can you use some capitals, and maybe some paragraphs? That is such a mess to try and read.
Reply:im sure if he sends u flowers andstuff he still cares for u and the baby just try talkin to him
Reply:It means he was out drinking and got stupid . Then he wrote some crap that he never meant and now you are dazzled . The kids will grow up fatherless while he serves time behind bars . Meanwhile , you will seek pleasure at night clubs by over indulging in adult beverage consumption and become a free lance woman of the evening .
Reply:most flower shops u can order flowers and have them delivered on a certain date like i can order flowers tonight and have them delivered next yr. so he might have done that or hes tring to suck up to u
Reply:That%26#039;s nice
Reply:maybe he is just tryna be nice and didnt really mean anything by love (insert person%26#039;s name here). Every1 puts love in the card dont over react
Reply:Sounds like he loves you but loves his mother more or perhaps he%26#039;s just not ready for responsibilities
Reply:He hasn%26#039;t seen his child in over a month, but took time out of his day to send you a birthday present?





I say send them back to him, and tell him that if he wants to %26quot;send%26quot; you something.... diapers and milk would be a great start.



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